The Love Scout

Peter Finch asked:


Have you been in love with a Russian? Here are three good pieces of advice if you plan to go for a girlfriend like Kournikova or Lena from Tatu.

You may have dreamed the tennis player Anna Kournikova, or you have discussed the charm of Maria Sharapova and surely you will notice Elena Dementieva next time when you watch the sports channels. What do they have in common? Yes, tennis is one of the things and the other is that they are all Russians!

Russian woman are characterized with sporty figures (without all of them being tennis players, you see), killer blue eyes and a great walk. If you look at Fashion TV you will be amazed how many women from the ex-soviet union are super models and adored by the designers these days.

Another fine example of stage performers and celebrities but in the entertainment industry, are the fierce brunette Julia and the sprightly redhead Lena, both of them forming the duet Tatu. Not long ago they toured USA and broke millions of hearts! Don’t you dream of having such a lovely wife?

Now you know that actually all your life you wanted to date Russian. But what will she like in you?

First of all learn a few phrases in Russian.

The Russian language uses the Cyrillic alphabet which is totally different from the Latin. Russian words are pronounced with softness and you might find it heard in the beginning but work hard and your efforts will be paid off. “Zdrastvui” and “Privet” are used for saying “Hello”; if you want to make a compliment, tell your date that “Tiy preekrahsnah vigleedeesh!” this means “You look lovely” and if you say it right she will fall for you immediately.

Romance her!

Russian women love small acts of romance. They can knit a sweater for you instead of going to a shop and buying it, just because they love you and doing something especially for you intends to prove their affection.

In return they will appreciate a rose of something hand made. Romantic gestures should be made from both sides. Of course you will not be expected to sew, but at a later stage when you know each other better, some French perfume or lingerie will make her jump with joy.

Call her!

Do not pretend that you are too busy. Russian women, need your attention 24/7 otherwise soon someone else could enjoy their attention. No matter the difference today, regular phone services have low-cost competition.

Use IP telephones or other alternative telecoms to talk to her at least once per day. Sometimes she might be busy. Do not think that she does not like to hear your voice, but ask when she will be available and free for chat.

Build a relationship

These things do not happen out of the blue. Many people believe that Russian women are pretty dolls and they can have two or three at home just for fun. This is very offensive for a lady. If you have serious intentions be clear with this. Tell your date something more about your family. It is very important for the lady because they come from a society where parents and kids are respected.

Do it right and you could find the love of your life!

Oxana Boichenko asked:

If you are thinking of meeting a Russian woman over the Internet – you HAVE to be aware of these most popular scams online:

Here are the most popular cities considered to be the scam capitals of their countries:

Lugansk- the scam capital of Ukraine – 90% of the ladies are scamming foreign men for money, presents, etc; read on to see the most popular scams.

Yoshkar-Ola – the scam capital of Russia

Kazan – the scam capital of Russia

Minsk- the scam capital of Belarus

In this article will be explained the most popular scams that Russian women go through and the saddest real stories that I witnesses when American men lost their head and a lot of money when chasing their dream.

I came to Lugansk with a purpose to open another matchmaking office there.

I think many have heard about the tremendous beauty of hot and sensual Ukrainian girls but only a smaller number of them do really know that exactly in this small Ukrainian town with a poetic name Lugansk every girl is a real supermodel. Frankly speaking, I didn’t have any version about why is it so, until the time when I introduced with one interesting and of course beautiful woman, who told me that in the time of the Russian Impress Katherine the second’s ruling, she dispatched all the beautiful girls to that remote area. She eliminated all that women of tremendous beauty in unknown city of Lugansk, in order their charm could not darken the beauty of the powerful Empress. In such a way, this small city was full of girls of unbelievable beauty and they were passing this real value from generation to generation. Probably it’s just a beautiful legend, but you start unwillingly believing it when you walk in the streets of Lugansk and stare at dazzling smiles of Lugansk beauties.

In one of the hot days, I set down on a bench in the shadow in a cozy and pretty park and lazily was looking at people who were resting there. Through some time my attention was attracted by a group of four chaps – two guys and two girls. One of the women among them was tremendously beautiful! A guy that was sticking with her was pretty much athletic but he was staring at another man in a very unfriendly way. At the mean time, the guy that was gazed by another man admirably looked at that extremely beautiful girl. The second chick as I understood was a translator, because guy that was charmed most all spoke in English. The interpreter seemed nervous and unconfident. The beauty was only answering “yes” or “no” and the conversation of two seemed more like a monolog of a foreigner. In some 15-20 minutes the stranger took out of his wallet and passed few green banknotes to the translator. Then, girls and the athletic guy left a foreigner alone and gone in a car that was waiting for them.

As I later found out, the foreigner was an American. His name was Steve. He seemed really confused. That’s why I decided to approach him and ask if he needs any help. So, we introduced and from that moment I started getting to know a different side of Lugansk. It was another truth – a shocking truth about this city.

He came from USA to meet his virtual woman of dream and gain his long-awaited happiness. His whole family was expecting him home with his beautiful, loving and caring Ukrainian bride. However his fiancé disappeared from his life unexpectedly, just like she entered it. The same thing happened to his friend who came with him to Lugansk for seeing his bride.

So, what was so horrible and what happened to both of them?

I told this guy’s story to the manager of my newly registered Lugansk branch of “oksanalove” mail order bride agency. And I was even more surprised and confused when she told me not a legend and not a history, but a real thing. I won’t tell about all the details. I just going tell you about some facts that I found out there.

So, Lugansk and other scam cities have several illegal fake agencies that work behind the closed doors. They don’t give any of their contact details; they do not provide clients with any trustworthy information, they don’t have advertisements. The pictures of their beautiful clients they put in different free internet sites like Absolute agency, etc. Many of their clients are married young women. They are not unfaithful to their husbands and do not look for a partner for creating a family. So, why do they address to the dating agency? The answer is simple and horrifying – is the money. This is it! The work of these beauties is also simple and does not really bother them. They just bring their photos to the agency and that’s all. The rest is the task for their agency. They decide on what web-site to put the newly came girl’s picture, they write letters to her trapped man and so on. Of course man has to pay for all those letters, where “his” woman get’s percentage for his spending. As a rule they receive lots of letters from the foreign clients and the fiancé (if I can say so) on the wings of love fly to these cities to see their beloved ones. Finally, the couples have a meeting and… Confused fiancé’s get a cold look of their Lugansk beauty instead of a sweet kiss.

They loyally pay money for personal translator service, driver, apartment found by their baby-girls and stay alone with their dreams. At the meantime, their brides honestly get their “share” for every deal from their translator who works for the agency. Usually, the fake bride gets some percent from the whole sum given by her fiance. And actually, her salary depends on how much generous her fiancée is.

Some men spent 10K, others 15K, most generous one (I heard) spent 35 – 45 Thousands!

Well, this is a sad story about Lugansk’s beautiful women and their fake dating agencies. I take all the responsibility for the reliability of this information and it’s checked by myself. In two similar agencies that I attended as a fake client I got the whole information about how the agencies of such kind operate and how their brides should work in their team. I told them that I’m married hiding the facts that could make them suspicious and disclose my intension’s. As I told before, I will not describe all the details. However, it made me even the more striving for realizing my purpose.

Here are proximate % that ladies receive from their man’s spending:

Letters – 40%

Gifts – 20 – 30%

Phone calls, translation services – 30%

Persona driver and interpreter when man arrives – 50%

Apartment / hotel rent – 20%

When searching for a foreign woman on the Internet, watch closely how she plans a meeting with you: does she want to have her own interpreter? – Red flag

Does she wan her person driver? – Red flag.

Does she want to travel with her own interpreter if meeting takes place in a third country? – Red flag.

Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of girls in Lugansk (or other Russian, Ukrainian cities) who want to find her second half, one she could give all her love, passion, tenderness, faithfulness and beauty.

See those specially selected ladies at our site who truly want to find love and happiness with a foreign man.

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Peter Finch asked:


Many of you may have wondered why Russian brides are so sexy and smart. The truth is only one: its their husbands that are giving them motivation to be such.

Have you ever wondered why there are so many men who have managed to find a wife who has so many undisputable virtues such as being smart, beautiful, sexy and rich?

The truth is that actually many Russian girls have started their family life out of nothing else but a desire to be part of the luxury lifestyle of the super millionaires. They are smart and intelligent but in addition they have worked hard to be well educated too.

Russia has internationally acknowledged universities such as the Moscow University or St. Petersburg Institute of Fine Mechanics and Optics. Many families have invested much in the good education of their daughters explaining to them that rich foreigners would never stay with a common woman in spite of her beauty.

Understanding that beauty is skin deep but being sexy is something one can learn and develop, young women have invested time and efforts to learn the art of innocent seduction. Usually in university Russian girls get the advantage of internship programs which allow them to travel the world and meet men on conferences or other scholar events.

If you have seen your sexy Russian bride during one of those events soon you will become convinced that sex is not just act, but state of mind and pleasure for the intellect. These ladies always support their husbands because they have been taught that family is very important and a wife’s mission is to motivate the relationship.

Russian women are ready to sacrifice almost everything in order for her to prove her loyalty to you. Their good professional education makes them desired partners not only for family, but business affairs too.

Many top captains of industry are intentionally searching for wives from a country from the soviet block because they know that these smart girls are able to double their fortune. What is more challenging and sexy for businessmen than having bride with astute and clever thinking, easy-going attitude and seductive inclinations?

You might be a software engineer but she will help you become a software entrepreneur whose company might break the traditional market. Your Russian wife will make everything possible to make you believe that your choice was right and to stay behind you in difficult times.

And all of a sudden if you decide to drop everything, a typical Russian bride will help you solve your problems just in a few minutes. She may well do this by the way while making love with you and whispering a tender “davai, davai” (go on, go on) in your ear.

Like most women all around the world these ladies are looking for better possibilities for them and for their children. Wellness partially guarantees this but what is more important to them is their husband’s education and character. Make your Russian bride laugh, tell her crazy romantic stories and prove that you can be good father.

International marriage is not an easy step. Things like cultural barriers or different traditions might make you confused. The good news is that in Russia, just like in America, women like erotic games. The combination of the two of you will result in everlasting physical and intellectual pleasure.

Вадим Григорьев asked:


1. Determine your requests to your future Russian bride.

 

Try to understand clearly what you want from your relationship with a Russian woman, your future bride. Set up the priority and choose what is the main criteria of the choice, what you are ready to give in and accept compromise variant. Her profession? The knowledge of your language? Children? Appearance? Something else? In what number should these qualities be present in your bride? Now try to look at this as a whole and think if there are such women at all. Can these qualities be together in one person? Or are they imcompatible?

2. Think what your ideal woman would want from you

 

Imagine the portraite of “your” woman. Where and how does she live, what is her occupation, and what is she interested in? But the main think is what position a man has in her life and what wants from him, what are her criteria of choice. Are you ready to satisfy the requirements? A girl or a woman has her right, the same as you, to choose. What are you ready to offer to her in exchange for what you want to receive. Some men think that helping a woman to move to their country is enouph to build stable relationship. There are Ukranian and Russian women who will be led by this motive, but do you want to have such a wife? If you see that you requirements are unrealistic return to the first paragraph, make less strict your requirements and imagine a girl with less strict requirements.

3. Create a virtual image for yourself

 

On the site of International Acquaintance we communicate with virtual people, created by our imagination from pictures, the profile and letters. Think of an image of a man who will be the most attractive for chosen by you a type of a girl. What is this image? Is it sensous and spontaneous? Energetic and provoking? Serious and neat? Intellectual and romantic? When you create your image make it a person of integrity. Pictures and answers should not contradict each other and support one idea. Variety on distance more often misinforms and puts on guard than attract. Let other your virtues be seen during more personal communication. But do not be over-diligent in creating your “portrait”. In spite of artistic stylization it should reflect real and significant part of your “I”. Otherwise, during your meeting you will both feel mutual disappointment.

4. Display energy and initiative

 

There are thousands of profiles online – to wait for a girl who answers your certain criteria can take years. And she can fail other criteria – seriousness, honesty etc. The dating sites are replenished each day. If you like a Russian or Ukrainian girl send a postcard or write a letter or give any other sign of attention. The more ladies you honour with your attention, the more you have chances to find the lady of your dream. Be attentive, talk with her about themes that are interesting to her, ask her about her life. Ask your lady for a telephone number and talk with her on the phone.

5. Do not give up because of failure.

 

How many women, beautiful and nice, have you met at work, in the streets, at friends? And have not met that only one? Have you met with lack of interest or rudeness? And have not you left a hope for a happy meeting? why then after one unsuccessful attempt of virtual acquaintance on a dating site you think this way to be doomed to failure? The search for your second half is a serious and goal-oriented work. Internet is not a lottery and not a fairy country, where wishes come true by themselves. Internet is a possibility to enlarge a circle of search to the world level. Many of our clients want to find a Russian bride becuase they see happiness of their friends who found a wife in Russia. Ask them how serious they were in this. But what if your search does not result in anything? What if girls do not write to you or you do not like those ladies who write to you? It means that you direct your charm not on the women you want or you selected wrong image. Read this recommendation from beginning and change your profile. The main thing – do not give up!

Vicky Smith asked:


Why Russian singles join mail order bride services?

The short answer is that because there are women of Moscow to the Russian services online of married mail-order brides. In fact, there are thousands of Russian brides waiting on line to meet their companion of life. Some of them recorded only their profiles and a part was recorded by the service. Usually, these Russian services of bride will charge the male profiles so that a small cost buys to come into contact with stamps of these ladies of Moscow. All the single women are free. However, there are some completely free Russian services dating which never charge anything with their members. They provide the free service for the Russian single girls and the American men or all the other Western men. Please look at the Russian Web sites completion free of dating below, they are completely free.

Why American men with the Russian single women?

The Russian women of single American love men is because they like the beauties and honest Russian girls. The bride Russian are the bride most beautiful on the world. They are thin and on a fine shape. They are honest and faithful to love and respect the husband. The American types can dine ready each time they arrive at the house of work. The Russian women are the hard workers thus they only make the major part of the house works. The bride Russian never leave for wild voyages after they married. They do not leave for the types the weekends. They can make cook the daily delicious meals. The Russian wives are the best for the American men because they respect their husband and the elder ones. They let their husband carry out the family.

Why Russian brides marry with the American men?

The Russian single women think that they are treated in a better way. In America, women are treated with more respect. They must be also treated. In the United States, there is a strict rule that the husband cannot strike the wife, and vice versa. Thus, the women in Moscow understand that they will have a better life in America than in Russia. The single dream Russian girls of a good life who they will obtain is married with the companion of life which treat them enough, which gives them the true love. I think that the majority of the women have the same thoughts that they like to have the love of the men in their life. They must be liked same manner that they love the men. Generally, all the single girls dream of the happy family with children. The Russian single girls think in the same way that they want to have a good future in America.

What is Russian mail order bride services?

The Russian bride mail-order selling is the girl of Russia which married with a foreigner, the men American or the Western men. There are many Russian services of married mail-order selling emerging nowadays to help the American men to become with the current of the bride Russian. The services mail-order selling will provide the means of finding one or the other single women of Moscow and standard American. The single Russian girls can find their grooms of married and vice versa these Russian sites of dating. The service also provides other means to lead to a marriage, such as the translation for those which have the linguistic barrier. For example, a Russian bride does not understand that English will need a translator. However, the single men will pay the service. There is no fee of the Russian girls, only of the men who must pay these fees.