The Love Scout

Curt Webber asked:


Mail order brides have had an air of mystery and romance surrounding them for a very long time and many Western men have lived a lifetime of love with a woman from halfway around the world. They may not have ever met this love of their life had they not been open to the idea of marrying someone from another country.

If you’ve been toying with the idea of looking at other countries to find a bride, you don’t have to travel the world to find her. The list below outlines seven good reasons you should consider mail order brides.

1.Studies have shown mail order brides and their husbands have longer, happier marriages than most traditional marriages.

2.Theoretically, the rule of opposites attracting applies when it comes to mail order brides and their spouses. Their marriages are almost always successful.

3.It’s easy to find an abundance of help online to walk you through the process of finding the mail order bride of your dreams. You’re able to correspond directly with the woman you choose before encountering an expensive trip abroad.

4.The somewhat negative connotation once associated with mail order brides no longer exists for most people. Online dating is widely accepted, and international online dating is just an offshoot. The phrase ‘mail order bride’ is still typed into search boxes about 3,000 daily.

5.Many services now exist online whose sole function is to unite Western men with hopeful brides from many countries around the world. The most popular countries tend to be Eastern Europe, South America, and Asia, although you can find marriage-minded women from all over the globe.

6.Many Western men find more traditional values in foreign women than the women in their own country, including issues such as raising children, careers, and relationships with older men.

7.Mail order brides could be the answer you need if you’re not meeting the kind of women that you’d like to, or if you’ve become weary of dating in the conventional way. Meeting foreign women online is only a click away and can be done from the comfort of your own home.

Thanks to the internet, dating and falling in love has become as global as shopping and communications. New people are accessing the internet every day as more countries move into the area of modern technology.

There’s no worry about learning to speak a foreign language, as there are software programs available to translate for you. You’ll also find foreign language programs you can use to learn a particular language once you’ve found a foreign woman you want to communicate with in her native tongue. Plus, many women you’ll meet will already be able to speak to you in English.

For men wanting to expand their dating choices, you can now look anywhere in the world. Whatever your preference, they’re out there and many foreign women you’ll meet are also looking for a lifelong commitment.

When you find the woman who steals your heart, take your time getting to know her. Find out her hopes and dreams and what she might expect from life in another country. There’s no need to rush this process. It’s much more important to know that you and your potential mate are both looking for the same things in a relationship.

Bob Miles asked:


1. Russia is more economically advanced than a lot of the third world countries where women seek overseas husbands. Many Russian women are already educated and successful, and thus they may not be seeking to immigrate for financial reasons. Thus, the thinking goes, their motivations are pure and they’re not so likely to leave you alone, confused and crying in the airport.

2. Word has it that men who seek mail order brides find Russian women more feminine than Western women. To hear them tell it, Russian women are more attractive than Western women. How much of this perception is real and how much of it is superficial “exotic appeal” remains to be seen is unclear at this point.

3. Most men who seek overseas brides are middle-aged or older, and young Russian women tend to be more open minded about marrying an older man compared to Western women. They tend to believe that older men treat their women better than young men do. For better or for worse, most men prefer beautiful women, and most men find younger women more beautiful. A middle-aged man can easily find a young and beautiful Russian woman much easier than in his home country.

4.Language: The United States is the most desired destination for most Russian mail order brides, and English language skills are spreading rapidly throughout Russia. DO remember, too, that mail order brides are probably more motivated than most to learn English, thus removing one of the greatest barriers to international matchmaking. Of course, complete fluency might be too much to expect, but once she gets to the US she will have the chance to practice daily. Who knows she might end up speaking English far more fluently than you’d like her to.

And let’s not forget, there is a certain type of American man who, for perhaps dubious motivations, would actually prefer a wife who can’t talk…

Robert asked:


Dating over the Internet has been one of the most popular way of meeting your life partner. There are a lot of websites that profile women of different age and background that you can choose from. And one of the most popular women that marriage agencies feature are from Russia.

So, if you are up to dating a Russian woman, establishing a long-term romantic relationship with her and eventually, spending the rest of your life with her, then, here are some facts about Russian Brides in terms of the qualities that they are looking for in a man, their motivation for marriage as well as other dating habits.

More and more Russian Brides are highly educated. Thus, they are able to grasp the English language and adapt to a different culture. And like other women who are serious about looking for love, Best Russian Girls are not there to marry foreign men just to get a green card or to better her own life. More and more educated Russian Brides are able to look for work, though there is only about twenty five percent who are able to get a job that is related to their degree.

At the same time, Russian Brides are wise in choosing their potential partner. They are not out there to marry loser men as Russian Brides are searching for good-looking, financially stable and sound men.

Russian Brides deem love and security important in a marriage or in any romantic relationship. In fact, there are about thirty percent Russian Brides who are ready to marry men who they are in love with. Also, Russian Brides these days are very practical so, they search for men who are financially capable but the women do not force their husbands to support them solely.

Best Russian Girls prefer older men who are five to fifteen years older then them. This is the case as Russian Brides firmly believe that older men are more emotionally mature and they are able to raise a family.

If you want to get in touch with a Russian woman, state it in your first letter to her in the middle of yoru message and attach your recent photo. This way, she would immediately get to know you and she can decide if she is attracted to you or otherwise.

Also, handwritten letters are better than E-mail, though the latter is the easiest way to correspond with a Russian woman. And you can send in, let’s say, a gift to a Russian woman that you find attractive in order to impress her and she would think how thoughtful you are.

Lastly, while Russian dating is easy but you must always ensure that when you do correspond with not just a Russian woman but with other women, you must always reveal your true self. If you are not able to do so, this would backfire in a big way since there would come a time that the woman will ask you to meet her in person. If you said that you have the height and the built of Brad Pitt but you are the complete opposite, then, that is not very nice.

Anyway, it is in the writer’s hope that you will find your perfect Russian woman. Good luck in your search!