Guidelines for Selecting an International Marriage Agency

Monday, December 22nd, 2008
jamie morrow asked:


Are the Women Profiled Real?

Do not use an International Marriage Agency based on the number of beautiful women profiled on the website. Any agency that has a high percentage of beautiful women should be suspect. Beautiful women are naturally rare and beautiful women are the most sought-after. So it would only make sense that the most attractive women would have the highest turnover in a marriage agency. The best-looking women will find a man sooner because they have more suitors and in turn will be more difficult for a marriage agency to replace because there are fewer beautiful women available. To work around this it is a common practice for foreign marriage agencies to show beautiful women as unattached regardless if whether they are married or with a boyfriend. Two other common practices used to inflate the beauty and quantity of women in an agency is to steal photos from other marriage and model agencies´ websites and to illicit arrangements with local photographers for the purchase of personal photos of women without their consent or knowledge. Beautiful women profiled in a marriage agency are meaningless if they are not available and, unfortunately, this is often the case. Many international marriage agencies will do whatever it takes to lure beautiful women to join. For example, here is an ad placed by a Barranquilla marriage agency in the local Colombia paper El Heraldo.

“Latin Wife Connection invita a todas las damas interesadas en conocer Americanos y Europeos con la oportunidad de participar en el Sorteo de diez visas, inscribete y participa en eventos sociales. Cra 48 No. 75-83 oficina 101. Telefono 3690250 seccion fotografica gratis.”

“Translation: Latin Wife Connection invites all women interested in meeting American and European gentlemen with the opportunity of participating in a visa raffle, enroll and participate in social events, free photographic session.”

There is no such thing as a ´visa raffle´ in Colombia. This marriage agency, like others, is trying to entice women to join under a false pretense of getting a travel visa. So instead of attracting women looking for love they attract women trying to leave the country. The fact that you may end up with a woman that is hiding her true intent for marrying you is obviously of no concern to such agencies. By using a trusted marriage agency the beauty you see will be real and available.

Do They Have Good Referrals?

A good marriage agency should be able to provide you with many past clients as referrals. Talk to these men about their experience with the agency and the experience of other Americans they met while using the marriage agency’s services. If the agency provides introduction events ask them how many guys attended the last event. Ask if they were all successful in finding a likely wife. If the answer is yes then ask for the contact information for all these men. If everyone got what they came for then the agency should be eager to provide all their glowing references. If the answer is no then find out why. Ask what the agency could have done differently to have helped this guy. Be sure everything they tell you is consistent and reasonable. A good marriage agency will be able to provide ample live referrals to back up their services. Do not rely on website testimonials that can be fabricated. Your best insurance on the quality of the marriage agency is positive customer experiences.

Do They Have a Positive Reputation?

A marriage agency should have a good reputation. Find out by accessing the dating forums that specializes in the region of the world in which you are interested. Ask the agency what the largest active forums in his industry are. Go there and search out the particular agency in the forum’s archives. Post a question asking about the good and the bad agencies. An agency with a good reputation should not fear the spotlight of the open forums. An agency with a good reputation would participate in the forums and have a history of dialogue that can be used to evaluate their services. Don´t make your selection a guessing game when the recorded history is out there for a sound judgment on the best marriage agency to use. An owner that claims not to know any international dating forums is lying.

Is the Owner Trustworthy?

Talk to the owner. Is he a man you can trust? How long has he been in business? Can he verify a record of success? Be cautious of any push to get you to sign up prior to the next upcoming event. You dictate the deadlines, not the marriage agency. Ask the owner what distinguishes their agency from the others and why you will be more successful under their care. Are you going to be treated as an individual or as part of the pack? Ask as many questions as possible to scrutinize all aspects of the service you are interested in. Your trip itinerary needs to be clearly defined. Understand the details and specifics that will make your travels to find a wife successful.

Do They Have an Established Office with Experience Support?

When you use an international marriage agency without a staffed office at your arrival destination you will be relying on temporary freelance labor. Such help will rarely have your long-term best interest in mind. In poor, developing countries survival often brings out the worst in people. We have seen too many examples of freelance translators taking advantage of Americans through theft, dishonesty and manipulation. In corrupt third world countries a lot of effort is required to find competent individuals with integrity and reliability who you can trust, particularly in delicate, private and emotional matters. A qualified intermediary takes training and experience. You will get neither from most marriage agencies where the only requirement is that they speak English. The difference between Latin American women and Western women requires a cultural navigation best guided by trained professional matchmakers who will help you bridge the cultural differences and build a successful relationship. You are best served by an established local office that supports you with full-time, experienced, trained, dedicated and professional matchmakers who can properly assist you.

Are They a Middleman?

Most international marriage agencies on the Internet are resellers and franchises. They’re marketing middlemen that associate with foreign local agencies. They fabricate an alternative website and use the database of girls from the other independent foreign agency which has its own separate website that actually provides the services. Any time an extra layer is added you can expect increased delays, miscommunications and problems. Deal with a trusted source and verify that they are not just a commissioned agent with a good tongue for promotion and hype.

Are They an Objective Source of Information?

Many marriage agencies will create phony dating directory websites or dating forums that will try to mislead you into thinking that they are an objective, independent source of information and advice on mail order brides. They will then recommend particular marriage agencies, that unbeknown to you, they own. Their objective is to sucker you and others as a valid resource on mail order brides when they are nothing more then advertisements that funnel you to a deceptive marriage agency. These false dating directories and forums are not easy to detect without a knowledgeable eye. While legitimate dating directories can be a valuable resource, it is best to use a variety of the above check methods for validating a quality marriage agency.

When you use a bad marriage agency you obviously you lose time and money but you also perpetuate the continued theft and disservice of those who will follow in your footsteps. By not scrutinizing the agency’s track record and referrals you allow the dishonest marriage agencies one more day to profit and prey on the unsuspecting. Most but not all of the dishonest agencies will have much lower prices than the legitimate marriage agencies because their intention is to do very little. It’s easy to flout discounted prices for services and promises that will never materialize. By following the above precautions in the selection of your agent the international path for finding a quality wife will be well worth the effort.



Finally… Meeting Your Russian Bride

Thursday, December 11th, 2008
charli jhonson asked:


Just like its women, Russia is a very pretty country with rich history and great cities such as St. Petersburg, Murmansk and Moscow. There are also other fascinating views like the wild and naturally beautiful Siberia and most significant view are the beautiful women in the country. They are gems that can surpass nature’s beauty or a tourist attraction anytime, anywhere.

 

For a man in search of his bride, who wants her to be one studding, pretty creature, he should not miss a visit to Russia. Going to the country in search for your bride could be a very memorable experience including the chance to see the country’s beauty and know some of the traditions, culture as well as its history.

 

The most convenient way to look for a Russian bride is through the mail order bride system by foreign agencies. Normally, the agency has the profiles and lists of all available gorgeous Russian woman registered to their site. They can provide these to you and all you need to do is just browse and select from these lists and profiles. When you had selected a number of women you would like to meet, the agency will now arrange your meeting. It can either be a date, a tour where she could be your tour guide or any approach that you like to.

 

After at least two meetings of your first woman, you will need to decide if she is the one or not. If you reject her, you will then continue to meet other ladies in the list until you can find the one that you are looking for. Some agencies offer advices and opinions during the selection process. These can guide you to be able to choose appropriately a suitable Russian bride. The agency can also arrange your marriage to the chosen bride. After that you are free to be anywhere with her and can even take her back to your country at once after the ceremony.

 

It may sound very easy as you read it but the actual meeting and dating is not. Russian women are reserve and traditional. It is not that easy to win their approval as well as their love. A man who would want to have a beautiful Russian girl for a bride should show respect and honor her. Aside from that, you need to show assurance to take care of her and pledge a lifetime commitment to be her husband.

 

Searching for the Russian woman of your dreams is quite easy today. There are many sites in the Internet where you can register. In registering, you need to create your profile and need to upload some pictures also. There are options here where you can attract the attention of Russian women by writing specifics. But before you can go further, your profile needs to be authenticated by the agency’s representative or staff. 

 

When done and approved, you are free now to browse around and look for your bride. Most sites provide the option to send letters thru emails to a prospected Russian bride. This process is exciting and as well informative. You can learn a lot of information pertaining to your bride to be. When you had finally selected a woman, coming over to Russia to meet her personally is the next big step. With the assistance from the agency, you can meet your pre-selected Russian bride smoothly.

 

Your meeting can be a dinner date or a tour with her as your tour guide. It is good to always observe good manners and gentleness especially when you are on a dinner date. Towards the end of the night when you are about to part ways, they tend to observe for these qualities in a westerner. They believed that western men are gentle and caring compared to Russian males. It is most important to create a positive first impression. Being well mannered, gentle and caring during your first date maybe one big factor to win her heart in the end. After all, Russian women are worth the effort invested because of their beauty and good qualities.

 

For a successful search of a Russian bride, be sure to register into a reputable mail order bride agency. Aside from being the avenue to select from a roster of Russian brides, most of these agencies have packages that can help you go through the process, from selection to getting married to your chosen Russian bride. There are also side packages offered like side tours to the beautiful historic places of Russia and many more.

 

See, searching for your Russian bride need not be tedious. It is an exciting and memorable activity as well as a journey.



Do’s and Don’ts in Dating Russian Brides

Wednesday, April 30th, 2008
Robert asked:


Dating over the Internet has been one of the most popular way of meeting your life partner. There are a lot of websites that profile women of different age and background that you can choose from. And one of the most popular women that marriage agencies feature are from Russia.

So, if you are up to dating a Russian woman, establishing a long-term romantic relationship with her and eventually, spending the rest of your life with her, then, here are some facts about Russian Brides in terms of the qualities that they are looking for in a man, their motivation for marriage as well as other dating habits.

More and more Russian Brides are highly educated. Thus, they are able to grasp the English language and adapt to a different culture. And like other women who are serious about looking for love, Best Russian Girls are not there to marry foreign men just to get a green card or to better her own life. More and more educated Russian Brides are able to look for work, though there is only about twenty five percent who are able to get a job that is related to their degree.

At the same time, Russian Brides are wise in choosing their potential partner. They are not out there to marry loser men as Russian Brides are searching for good-looking, financially stable and sound men.

Russian Brides deem love and security important in a marriage or in any romantic relationship. In fact, there are about thirty percent Russian Brides who are ready to marry men who they are in love with. Also, Russian Brides these days are very practical so, they search for men who are financially capable but the women do not force their husbands to support them solely.

Best Russian Girls prefer older men who are five to fifteen years older then them. This is the case as Russian Brides firmly believe that older men are more emotionally mature and they are able to raise a family.

If you want to get in touch with a Russian woman, state it in your first letter to her in the middle of yoru message and attach your recent photo. This way, she would immediately get to know you and she can decide if she is attracted to you or otherwise.

Also, handwritten letters are better than E-mail, though the latter is the easiest way to correspond with a Russian woman. And you can send in, let’s say, a gift to a Russian woman that you find attractive in order to impress her and she would think how thoughtful you are.

Lastly, while Russian dating is easy but you must always ensure that when you do correspond with not just a Russian woman but with other women, you must always reveal your true self. If you are not able to do so, this would backfire in a big way since there would come a time that the woman will ask you to meet her in person. If you said that you have the height and the built of Brad Pitt but you are the complete opposite, then, that is not very nice.

Anyway, it is in the writer’s hope that you will find your perfect Russian woman. Good luck in your search!



Russian Girls For Dating And Russian Women For Marriage

Monday, April 28th, 2008
Amy Woodside asked:


The Russian girls for the dating await their husband on these Russian sites of dating. Some bride paid mail-order order charge the men for small monthly fees in contact with the Russian women for the marriage. However, when you are recorded with the free Russian sites of married mail-order order, you never pay any cost. You recall, Web sites online of dating of Moscow were popular in last years to help the unmarried Russian women to find their associates on the net. If you are an unmarried woman of Moscow, then you should be registered with free with any Russian service of dating. On the one hand, if you are an American man seeking the Russian women for the marriage, then can make you the same thing.

We continued to cause for approximately four months, a Russian lady of the three stopped contacting me because she married with a type of America. You should remember that when you come into contact with three girls then. The Russian women for the marriage also make the same thing. It is to better cause with some in the place of. They undoubtedly do not know that you will travel to Moscow to marry them thus they prepare just. You can come into contact with many women whom you selected of the free Russian sites of married thus they can make the same thing. We saw Russian thousands of girls to go back in these completely free services from dating to Moscow with which you can choose to come into contact. You should act one on the other with as many Russian women for the marriage like possible.

I heard of the Russian sites online of married my best friend. Thus, I sought a better Russian service of married to be registered with. That I joined with is completely free service of dating thus I did not pay any fee. After a few days, I received some answers of the Russian girls whom I sent the messages to. I decided to continue the transmission of messages to three women of Moscow which I think that they are serious. We caused too much time on the room of instant messaging of Yahoo Messenger thus we can see the face of other. The three Russian friends that I cause with are the range from 27 to 33 years. They all have 1 child and are the single moms. I do not want to enumerate the details about the way in which they became the single moms here.

Did you ever date a Russian lady? If not, then you cannot have an imagination as the soft Russian women are. I passed more than 10 hours on the plane to meet my friend in Moscow and it in value my voyage. The Russian lady that I met with a Russian service of bride is so soft that I must write a letter to present to choose men locally and around the world to know the Russian girls for the dating and the marriage. First of all, I am not a Native American guy so please understand with my English writing. I would recommend for the single men in America or anywhere elsewhere should pay the attention to the Russian women the marriage. I would say that the women most beautiful on the world are the Russian girls. They are soft and faithful. The Russian girls for the dating are splendid.