The Love Scout

Peter Finch asked:

Russian women are full of romance and love, but that does not mean they will plunge headlong into a long term relationship with anyone. It takes time to crystallize a relationship with them, and it is a bit of a challenge actually. You may take a while in reaching out at her heart, and it is not only an exercise in romance, but you will also have to learn her traditions and even language.

The world over, people have the impression of Russians that they are a casual and friendly lot, but they are also very family-oriented. Men all over the world like Russian brides especially for their attractive charm and charisma. Russian culture is also very popular, which teaches women to believe quite strongly in love. That is the reason why a Russian bride becomes a whole package of everything men look for in a wife.

It can be said that Russian women are full of emotions, something that they learn from their roots. They do search for true love, but at the same time, a Russian bride will keep up with her husband till death do them apart, irrespective of any shortcomings in her husband. But, they will like a bit of romance, and will also appreciate a bit of financial security in their married life.

One trait that foreign men must know and understand in their Russian brides is that they will have a strong sense of self-esteem, and a fierce sense of pride. That makes it necessary for both husband and wife to adjust and compromise a bit after marriage. Men married to Russian women must understand that their brides have come from a distant country, and there are many changes in the cultural and traditional values. She has come into a new family and to a new husband who is more than a normal stranger. That is the reason, men must make a little more place for them than they would for a wife from their own country.

It is very important that men must be honest and truthful with their Russian brides right from the start. Even before the marriage, there must be good communication, in which not only the good things must be discussed, but also the points that could become problematic to the couple later on.

It seems quite easy for most men to acquire a foreign wife, but it is retaining them that is difficult. Difficulties are bound to occur during and after marriage, so a great amount of thought is needed. Men looking for Russian wives must consider whether it is lust that is driving them to marriage, or true love. Barriers such as cultural and language differences must be thought of, as well as the differences in the way of living. Russian women have a different kind of psychology too, and men must try to understand that. And, if there is any occasion that that you have to visit Russia, then you must be ready to accept a bit of cultural shock. This will help you settle better with the Russian woman.

Men who are too busy, but still want a Russian bride for themselves, knowing all the problems that might come in, would do well to visit a matchmaker. These people have special expertise in making foreign marriages happen. They will find the right kind of wife for you, and will also train you on the proper manners for the first meet.

Finally, it is your heart that you must listen to. You might have a great hankering for a Russian bride, but you must appreciate the difficulties too. However, if you are really in love, you must not let these difficulties come in the way of a fruitful married life.

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Mitchell Smith asked:

CONSIDER THIS:

There are many dating sites that contain the same profiles. When I was a member of Match.com so many years ago, I used to see the same girls all the time on other sites as well, such as matchmaker.com, udate and yahoo personals. We all joined multiple sites to spread ourselves out — to have more options. And during that time, I can say that I joined nearly every site imaginable. So would you agree that all of these sites are involved in some kind of conspiracy because they have the same profiles?

A man searching for a Russian bride joins 2-3 sites at once, writes to many ladies, gets his photo in the site catalogue that is presented to Russian women… so that’s 3 site catalogues he is now a member of. The ladies see his photo in 3 different catalogues and begin to wonder… is he involved in a conspiracy then too, simply because he has joined 2-3 different Russian Bride sites?

A man describes himself as being wealthy, good looking and successful… and he sends out 400 emails telling Russian women how he is a God in bed, how women love him and worship the ground he walks upon. How he loves to have cybersex and invites all Russian women to join him in on the fun… yet not one letter was returned. Is this a conspiracy?

BOTTOM LINE:

Business is business — always has been and always will be. Part of the success to any dating site is having a large database to attract new customers. Profiles hardly ever get removed — and while some do remove the old profiles, most do not. My profile is still on many of the other dating sites and I can’t get them to remove it because I forgot the email address I used to sign up with. This was 5 years ago too!

Russian girls are human too — and they spread themselves out too by joining many different marriage agencies. Many of the Russian bride sites use real marriage agencies located in Russia, and many of these agencies are NOT exclusive to just one bride site. They are all in business to make money, so you cannot blame them for spreading themselves out too. And after a while, these same Russian girls forget which marriage agencies they joined up with, lose contact or whatever, and their profiles stay forever in the database. It’s part of the dating business and will always be like that. Nobody’s fault really — but don’t blame a dating agency for not deleting a profile simply because a user has forgotten to contact them and tell them to remove it.

Agencies are not the bad guys nor the good guys. They are a business, plain and simple. They have a list of over 30,000 clients — so do you really expect them to call every single women and ask if their still single? Does match.com do that? For the record, does any dating site do that? Of course not and it’s ludicrous to think that they should.

And what about writing those letters and not getting any responses? Well, what about it?!! Write some more and keep on truckin’! Not everyone is going to think you’re as great as YOU seem to know that you are. That’s life… get used to disappointment. I sent out probably thousands of letters in my 4 years of online dating, and at best, I might have gotten maybe a 15% return rate. In my opinion, that is actually pretty good too. Online dating is not easier, so don’t be a fool and think it is. It only gives you more options to meeting more people — but along side of that also comes more rejections.

So the next time you hear a negative”Opinion” about how Russian dating agencies are handled, just remember one thing… they are in business to make money; and whether or not the practices of certain agencies might be argued as being ILLEGITIMATE, you always still have the choice of NOT JOINING. If you believe a certain agency carries a lousy reputation, then why bother joining it in the first place? Just move on and find another site to join that you feel more comfortable with. Good luck!

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A. Hathaway asked:

How to not be a victim of Relationship Fraud

It’s no secret that the Philippines produces a good number of foreign brides each year to Western men. Many women seek a better life from the poverty and widespread problems there, others are looking for something different, the money.

There are many successful marriages and lasting relationships that come from the exportation of Philippine brides. There are an equal number of women (and men) scamming Westerners out of the hard earned cash. The Internet has made meeting these women easy, and with beautiful brides awaiting, how does one know the relationship is real? Is she who she says she is?

Most relationships today begin on the Internet, or for a few, with a business trip or vacation to the Philippines. Developing a relationship on the Internet raises the risk level considerably. The best way to avoid fraud and scams (mainly advance fee fraud) is to visit the person and see who exactly you’re dealing with. Spend some time in her country and get to know her on a real and personal level. With today’s professional fraud groups, it can be difficult to know the difference between love and scam.

Avoid sending money and be skeptical of “emergencies”. Get to know the person slowly via the Internet, and follow up with phone conversations if the relationship progresses. Be wary of requests for money. And don’t be crazy. If you’re thinking of marriage, invest in the effort to visit the Philippines before beginning any serious commitment. Lastly, if all looks good and you think you may have found the real thing, get the confidential background check by Wymoo International, and sleep well at night!

Be safe and happy hunting,

A. Hathaway

Copyright © 2005-2007 A. Hathaway

Katrina asked:

If you are a "gringo" captivated by the beauty and vivacious nature of latina women there are some things that you’ll need to learn to succeed with these beautiful, mysterious women.

First, it isn’t necessary for you to be fluent with your "espanol".  As long as you can say a few words, such as "gracias", "como estas?" and "eres muy guapa" (you are really cute) to her, then most latina women will find this very endearing and be intrigued with you.

Just by the fact that you have said something to her in her language, you don’t need to worry about coming up with a clever opening line to start a conversation.  9 times out of 10 she will ask you how you learned to speak spanish (and only if you speak 2 or 3 words in reality, but she doesn’t know this yet).  She will probably offer to teach you more spanish if you ask.  So the conversation has already begun, without the need to use a corny pick up line on her.

If you still need help with finding something to talk about, then ask her about her favorite food from her own country.  Women love to talk about food, especially latin american women.  You might actually be sorry you asked, because she might go on and on about food from her country.  That is when you should ask her the next question, which is obvious: if there are any good restaurants in town that serve food from her country, whether it be Mexican, Cuban, Colombian, etc. and ask if she wants to go there for dinner with you sometime. Very few latinas will turn you down if you approach them this way, unless you come on too strong or they already have a man.

On the date, it’s important for you to know that it’s not a good idea to come on too strong with a latina, with these women it’s better to take it slower than you would with a "gringa".  Latin women are very concerned with being respected and not being used, due to the "machista" attitude of many men in their own countries.

Use this to your advantage because as a "gringo" she will think you are more respectful and honorable.  Take it slow with her at first, and believe me, you will be rewarded beyond your wildest dreams later.

I will be writing another article on this topic soon, but if you need more advice now, or just want to say hello,  just drop me a line at my e-mail.

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Groshan Fabiola asked:


In the northern part of the Caribbean lies a country called the Dominican Republic. When Christopher Columbus discovered this country, he immediately named it Little Spain, for it was the most beautiful place of The New World. Such an amazing place only had room for beautiful people and this is why, centuries later, Dominican women still remain some of the most beautiful women on Earth.

Nowadays, when we are free to marry whomever we desire, men do not have to limit themselves to admiring Dominican women’ s beauty; they can actually get to know and marry a Dominican lady. There is one very simple way of meeting Dominican women and that is using a Dominican women agency. The use of such an agency can lead to friendship, true love and even Dominican women marriage.

A dating agency offers matchmaking services to people of all ages and nationalities. If you want to meet a woman, if you need a person to talk to or if you are looking for a bride, you can use a dating agency. If you are looking for a particular lady, for example a Dominican lady, then you can use a Dominican women agency. Nowadays, there are many dating agencies, but only few of them actually have the experience necessary in this type of business. When love or marriage is on the line, only experienced and trustworthy agencies must be used. For example, if you like Latin ladies, then you should probably choose a Dominican women agency or a Latin women agency. By doing so, you can be certain that you will find only the best and most beautiful Latin ladies. Dominican women marriage is more of a certainty when using this type of agency.

Of course, another way of meeting Dominican ladies is visiting their country. However, this method is probably too demanding for most men. They are either caught up with work and do not have the necessary time to make the trip or they do not have the necessary resources for such a trip. Dominican ladies could also be living in the same city as you, but chances of meeting a single Dominican woman in your country or town are very low. Therefore, the most efficient way of meeting Latin ladies still remains a Dominican women agency. These types of agencies are very reliable, they save you a lot of time and your chances of finding your partner or even a bride are very high. Whether you are looking for a pen pall, a friend, a relationship or a wife, a Dominican women agency can offer you that. Dominican women marriage is a certainty if you use a Dominican women agency, because all women who join such agencies are family oriented.

There are several ways of meeting Latin women, but some of them are a little difficult and others are just in the hands of faith. However, there is one way that does not depend on faith and it is not at all difficult. Using a Dominican women agency is simple, less time consuming and has great results. Dominican women marriage is one of the results of using a dating agency. The only catch is to know which agency to choose.

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