The Love Scout

Rodrigo Rehn asked:


You will find quite a number of Russian women who take keener interest in dating the foreign men than the local guys. There are quite a number of reasons behind this. Some of them hunt for the foreign men in the online dating websites which are considered to be a great place to interact with men from all parts of the world.

They can check out the profiles of the people from all over the globe and choose the right one who they feel will do perfect not only as a date but also as a life partner. Most of the Russian women are more interested in taking the dating relationships towards marriage instead of being involved in short term relations. Here are certain reasons that might have played an important role in building their mindset.

Reasons why the Russian girls like dating foreigners

This is not the fact that you will not find handsome and decent guys in Russia. But the problem is that the Russian girls often consider the foreigners as better choice. They are not really concerned about the age of the person whom they are dating. They are ready to date a man who is older than her but has a lot of money in his pocket.

The older men are often in a stable position and earn well. So they are able to spend a lot of money on their date and buy expensive gifts for her. This is what the Russian girls like about the foreigners. In fact they will give much preference to the emotions and commitments of a man apart from his wealth.

They are often considered to be extremely charming and beautiful to the foreigners and they take keen interest in dating them. They encash this perfectly and often try to get married to these foreigners to relocate to other countries. Most of the Russian women are quite experienced about sex and emotional affairs and finally what they look for is marriage.

Hence most of them aim to get married to the foreigners after dating him for a long time. The socio-economic and political condition of the country has an important role to play in this.

But at the same time this is not easy to impress a Russian woman. If you feel that you will learn to pronounce her name and she will fall for you then this is a very wrong notion. They look for care and attention from their date.

They are extremely sensitive and can judge people with their attitude. But if you are a foreigner and have all the qualities that they look for in a man then the chances are quite high that you will get to date a Russian woman.

Ricardo asked:


Paul’s sexy wife was all Howard could think of. Paul’s hot wife? Paul’s naked wife?

Howard could not figure her out. Was Paul’s wife a cheating wife? Was she going to be his angel wife lover? Paul’s sexy wife dominated Howard’s thoughts. She was certainly a lot sexier than Howard’s ex wife.

Howard considered suggesting wife swapping to Paul. Wife swapping? You have to have a wife to begin with. Howard only had an ex wife. No wife for a decent wife swap, imagine. Wife sharing was another matter – a conventional, everyday matter. Wife sharing! What an idea. Howard was going to make Paul an offer to do some wife sharing. Paul? What do you say we share your sexy wife? Nah. Paul would never go for it. He had met his wife in Brazil and brought her over only a year ago. Met his hot wife in Rio, imagine. Those Brazilian girls are something. Ten years from now? You never know. But not right now.

Howard stared at Paul’s wife pic. She was one hot chick, no doubt about that. She was not a mature wife yet, not the sorry type that parades in baggy pants in front of the whole world, rolling a stroller in front of her, gossiping on the cell phone. No. She was like the time traveler wife he had once seen in a movie – out of this world. He tried plying her with some casual conversation. Paul caught him in the act and said something one would expect Paul to say in such cases. Don’t screw with my wife. With my beautiful wife. With my innocent, open wife.

Howard pictured Paul’s wife in bikini. Quite a sight. What a naughty wife Paul had! Even though she was Brazilian, and Tiger Woods’ wife was Swedish (wasn’t she), there was a resemblance between Paul’s sexy wife and Tiger Woods’ sexy wife, Howard thought. Paul’s wife was a world wide wife. She wore special clothes, expensive numbers, showing a lot of leg. Showing a lot of wife leg. Paul’s wife leg. Paul did not deserve her. One windy day Howard glimpsed Paul’s wife’s pantie. Just a bit of wife pantie showing.

She could barely speak English and did not have any friends yet. She must be a very lonely wife indeed. Or so Howard thought. Lonely wife. Imagine. Paul’s wife – lonely.

She wasn’t particularly bright. One day at work, Paul offered his coworkers to guess whether she was superintelligent or dumb. Rate my wife, he said. Imagine. “Rate my wife.” What a jerk. No respect.

Maybe I should get a Russian wife, Howard thought. Getting a Russian wife is easy. You just pay a lot of money. There are many girls in Russia, and a lot of them want to be your Russian wife. If I had a Russian wife, Howard thought, I could do some serious wife swapping with Paul. A Russian wife is always beautiful. A total reality wife, a dream wife, parading in sexy Russian wife lingerie. He once saw this in a movie. It was some kind of crazy, stupid, platitudinous wife movie – a movie that only a stupid (if sexy) wife could have enjoyed, but the frame stuck in his mind – a sexy Russian wife I lingerie. It would be nice to be able to take Paul’s wife to the beach. Imagine going to the beach with Paul’s naked wife. It would have to be a nude beach. Paul’s wife in the nude. Paul’s swinger wife in the nude. Ah, vanity! Ah, ignominy! Paul’s interracial wife was all Howard could think of.

It would be nice to get Paul’s sexy wife drunk. A drunk wife might be more of an open wife … open-minded wife, that is, than a sober wife, English or no English. Howard once read in some stupid book that an Asian wife was likely to be more responsive to the wife-share concept than any other kind of sexy wife. Howard did not want an Asian house wife, he wanted Paul’s hot wife from Rio. He wanted Paul’s naughty house wife.

Stare at that wife photo again. Go ahead. I dare you.

A shared wife, a hot wife from Rio – Paul’s wife.

Two years later, Paul’s wife got pregnant. She did not lose even an ounce of her charm … sex appeal … whatever. She was Paul’s sexy wife all the same. Paul’s pregnant sexy wife. Paul was Howard’s friend, and all Howard could think of was Paul’s pregnant wife. “Don’t screw with my sexy wife” – that came after Howard made another attempt to strike up a risqué conversation with Paul’s sexy wife. Paul didn’t like it. Paul’s sexy wife could now speak some English and understood humor and flirting. “Don’t screw with my sexy wife” – what a jerk. With at least two feet of that sexy wife stocking showing, she strutted in front of Howard, smiling her Brazilian smile. No desperate house wife, oh no, not she. Paul and Paul’s sexy wife. Husband and wife.

He saw her again, when she was about eight months pregnant. She had a huge shiner, and she looked desperate. Paul’s desperate wife. He asked her what the hell happened, and she told him – you guessed it – an old wife tail about falling down the stairs. Was Paul a wife beater? His buddy Paul? What’s this world coming to, folks? Come on, Paul’s wife! Give Howard some material for a good cheating wife story. Paul’s dirty wife, Paul’s hot wife, give me a wife story, Howard thought.

He now has an Asian wife and a Russian ex wife. Paul’s sexy wife has three kids. They had dinner together the other night.

Curt Webber asked:

In Eastern Europe you’ll find the small country of Belarus, with roughly 10 million people, among them a bevy of beautiful Belarusian brides hoping to find a marriage minded man from the West. Even though the majority of the population lives in the large cities (a full fifth of the population lives in Minsk, the capital city), Belarus is mostly an agricultural country and is often known best for the radioactive fallout the Chernobyl disaster sent raining down on the small country.

Most of the people of Belarus speak Russian, although you will also hear Belarusian, which sounds very similar to Polish. Belarus has been greatly influenced by the countries it shares a border with, including Latvia, Poland, Lithuania, Ukraine and Russia. It was, in former days, a part of the USSR.

Many of the festivities and folk songs that Belarusians celebrate with have their history in the pagan Belarusians of centuries ago. Even today, the God of Sun, Yaryla is still celebrated in Belarus, although the main religions now are Orthodox and Catholic.

How does this affect you if all you want to do is marry a Belarusian bride? It affects you because it’s important to know as much as possible about a foreign bride’s country, her culture and beliefs, and anything else that may influence your relationship with her.

Each part of the world has a different belief system, with its own customs, traditions, and morals. You don’t have to agree with them, but you do need to respect the other person’s right to hold onto them, even if she moves to your country to become your wife.

In Belarus, for instance, there are distinct roles for men and women, such as preparing the table with food, which is considered the woman’s responsibility. A Belarusian man would not be expected to ever take part in that chore.

Like many countries, much of the Belarusian traditions revolve around food, and much of their food is served with vodka. They have an interesting tradition with food as it relates to matchmaking.

A matchmaker visits a hopeful Belarusian bride and brings gifts of food and drink. She suggests a potential husband for the woman, and if her recommendation is accepted, she returns to the house later with the potential groom, who brings a gift of vodka to the family. The young woman’s parents supply food for all.

When this ritual has been completed several times, the couple is considered to be engaged. If it doesn’t work out and one side decides to break the engagement, they’re expected to repay the other party for the food and drink expenses.

In contrast to old traditions, men and women in Belarus often hold the same jobs and receive comparable pay, but even in these modern times, gender specific roles are still recognized. The raising of children is the woman’s domain and with those younger than 14, the father seldom interferes with the mother’s decisions.

Years ago, when a young couple got married, they moved to their own little hut on family property owned by the groom’s parents. Celebrations of the marriage took place in the homes on both sides and everyone shared all the expenses.

Another cultural difference you may be unaware of is that young Belarusian brides who could work on the farm and keep house well were considered a better choice than one who was beautiful or wealthy and didn’t possess those skills.

Morals were strong in Belarus and a young woman was usually expected to still have her virginity when she married. In fact, sometimes it was also expected that the groom be a virgin as well.

When you decide you’d like to marry a Belarusian bride, take the time to learn about her culture. It will endear you to her, and will allow you to have a little more insight as to her beliefs and what she considers important.