The Love Scout

Peter Finch asked:


Russian women are romantic and loving, but before starting a long term relationship and taking a step towards marriage with your future Russian bride, be sure that there is a long way to go, before you reach her heart. Be careful not only with traditions or language, but also with personal values such as honesty and pride.

Russians are considered warm and easy going people and Russian women are no exception to this. Russian brides are generally desired because of their natural charm, charisma and the culture they are coming from. Many of them are beautiful women who understand that a good marriage is the perfect solution for their future. They are ready for marriage not only because of pure love, but some practical reasons too.

Quite emotional by nature, women are looking for an exact match, but at the same time their good senses are insisting that love is not everything. To fulfill their dreams they are looking for romantic relationships with people who apart from love, are able to give them something more, such as a good house, household security and to support a lifestyle without any complications.

People who are looking for a Russian bride should keep in mind that the Russian people in general are proud and the women’s self esteem is not an exception to this rule. Men who want to share their life with a woman from that country should know that it will not be easy to adapt to the habits of a new daily life. Women who are ready to leave their family and start a new life with a stranger also have requirements and sometimes these are higher than expected.

However, these requirements can be cleared and any misunderstanding can eventually be eliminated, if the man who is looking for a Russian bride is honest from the very beginning and is sharing not only the good sides of his character, but also things that he knows that later could appear to be problematic for the relationship.

Finding the right foreign bride might sound easy, but at the same time the above mentioned requirements of both sides of the relationship might cause difficulties. Before taking any step into that direction, any man who is dreaming of a fantastic easy going Russian should invest some time in research. Local traditions are important as much as the language barrier.Taking lessons in Russian, studying the customs and trying to understand the psychology of women are some of the ways to prevent any crises by the cultural shock. The net is rich in information in many languages explaining the most important steps for such a relationship. Women are delicate human beings and putting too much pressure on them just to fulfill your dream of a Russian bride sometimes might have negative effect.

Of course, if your time is valuable, you can always hire an agency or a matchmaker who is a professional in that area. There are many people who are well informed regarding the traditions or can help you with some legal barriers. They will also give you advice about the etiquette in the family because if you are on your way of taking a Russian bride, it is always good to know how you should act when you are meeting her family.

Last, but not least, listen to your heart. Have true feelings and be sure that your Russian bride is having them too, and not just using you as a method to ensure her good life.

Dao Jones asked:


This topic has been debated many times but the question still exists:

“Why do a lot of single men all over the world choose Russian girls?”

Frankly, I get asked this question a lot. What’s so special about Russian girls?

If you ask yourself the same question as well, you’ll probably find helpful information in this article. Facts.

According to the latest sensus, Russia is home to 10 million more women then men, said State Statistics Committee head V.Sokolin.

The number of women in their 30s exceeds the number of men significally. After the divorce, the woman with a kid (or with no kids) has little chance of getting married again in Russia, according to sociologists.

There are no men in Russia to get married to: mortality rate of the working age males is extremely high.

Keeping these statistics in mind, check your dating opportunities in Russia as well. You will be shocked by the quality of Russian girls.

A Russian girl is beautiful. The proverb ‘Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder’ confirms that tastes differ. The woman one man considers to be beautiful, another may think she is not.

Effortless grace…Charming smile…Kindness…Beautiful cheekbones…Fair hair and skin…? Hard to choose…Possibly, it makes an irresistable mix.

Let’s see it by the eyes of men. This is how Western men describe a genuine Russian girl: “Slant to the eyes…”,”…I can’t resist this stunning beauty”, “Russian girls are the most beautiful women I have seen”…

Should anything be added? However, nobody is able to judge by beauty alone. Let’s see other Russian woman’s qualities.

The highest priority is her family. The woman’s marriage age in Russia is about 25 years old. That means Russian girls get married comparatively early. At least Russian girls try but fail (see the sensus).

It looks unusual if a Russian girl at the age of 30 is still unmarried. She feels uncomfortable either.

These are daily facts from the Russian woman’s life: ~Being highly educated, she would prefer a stable and happy family to her career; ~Tireless commitment to her loved ones, she keeps the household herself; ~Her husband is a partner and not a competitor; More facts?

Love and romance.

The Russian woman’s ‘romantic sweetnes’ makes her search for a happy, fulfilling and loving relationship. A Russian girl is extremely feminine, healthy, sexy, passionate, sensual and thankful.

Love-making is not a hard work for her: it’s the pleasure and the beauty of mutual satisfaction. The truth is that the Russian girl while making love is really making love … A Russian girl wants to see the excitement in you, so give it to her! You will not regret.

Russian girls are educated and smart. You will be pleasantly surprised at the educational level of Russian girls looking for men abroad. A university or college degree is a common thing. It’s not a bluff.

Don’t forget they are very spiritual. The tradition of reading books, attending concerts, museums is still alive in Russia.

Beautiful Russian girls are extremely teachable: you will not believe how quickly they are able to begin speaking a new language and adapt themselves to the new circumstances.

Russian girls are brave. Do you think it’s easy to leave the country of birth, relatives, friends, the job, and the native language? Try… It’s extremely difficult.

Ideal image? This is sure a common portrait of beautiful Russian girls looking for men abroad.

If you take into account the general qualities as well as concentrate on the real woman, you’ll be fine.

Start focusing on the woman, communicate with her, ask and answer questions, let her know that you are sincere. Be yourself, let her know that you care about her – any woman wants to be taken care of – how can you go wrong with that?

The term ‘Russian girl’ includes girls from Ukraine and Belarus as well, as they have very much in common. There are exceptions so you should be very careful in your choice.