The Love Scout

Ivar Rudi asked:


Russian brides are the most popular type of mail order bride. However, when going into this type of market, there are most scams than honest deals. Many people turn to the Internet to find love. There are millions of online dating consultants and plenty of mail orders. However, how do you know that you are being scammed? Look for the following signs. If you can recognize any of them to your situation than you are most likely being scammed!

Well first, you should be caution with anyone online dating or brides. When you put your profile on site, you should let yourself go and place a picture online. Most of the time people only search pictures so if you’re serious, add a pic. If someone responses to your profile and claims to be in love at first sight, stand back.

There is no such thing, even if they do have a legitimate feeling about you, it’s not love! No one can fall in love to a profile. Next, think about the Russian’s picture. Did it look professional? If so, then don’t keep an interest because most Russian’s who are there for love or marriage, don’t get professional pics done. You should look at their income and guess their personality. If the picture contradicts, your impression of the woman, than it’s not the person or it’s a scam. You do have a possibility of getting an honest profile and done by professionals, but it won’t be model quality.

Once you get to know someone (a couple of responses), you should ask her to take a picture of herself in front of a landmark like the Kremlin or in her garden or something that will look like the Russian environment. You can possible trap the person early one by asking for more pictures. If the person is using pictures of someone else, she/he may forget what they sent you to begin with and then you can call them out if there are discrepancies.

Look at the letters; do they look like they are mass-produced? Is your name only placed in a couple places all the time? Also, pay attention to content. If you are never asked about your life, family, the city you live in and so on, then they aren’t interested in meeting you. Also, make your letters personally like your dog died or you took the long way home today and if you get no response to that than the letters are mass produced and it’s a scam. There are so many more things that you can pick out of the conversations or letters that will tell you it’s a scam. You shouldn’t allow yourself to be blind and specially look for some of these tips.

When it comes to Russian Brides, you must be careful and try to find any signs of a scam. It can be hard to judge someone whom you’ve become accustomed to lean on, but it must be done to protect your privacy, feelings, and bank account.

Tatiana Babak asked:


Probably you know that most of the Russian girls are very calm, gentle and kind. If you are looking for a devoted wife, you won’t find more appropriate decision then choosing Russian woman. Besides, Russian girls are usually rather beautiful.

But sometimes it happens that a man simply doesn’t know what to start with and how to communicate with a foreign girl. Actually, we often don’t know how to chat with any girl, no matter what country is she from. So what about the person who differs from us not only by gender but also by nation, language and the way of thinking? How to date with such a girl?

The first step

Firstly, you must know that the best place for dating with Russian girls is a specialized dating site such as the one you are in now. Here you can find not only beautiful and good-natured girls but also girls who really want to date with intellectual and interesting foreign men. And if you know they really like that, why are you hesitating?

So, first of all, register and try to fill in your profile in the most interesting way. Remember that mostly a girl is deciding whether she likes to communicate with you or not mainly by looking through your profile. Be sure that your photo for her is as much important as her photo for you. Will you chat with the girl without a photo in her dating profile? I think not. You did understand what I wanted to say, do you?

It is not good to write in your profile absolutely everything about you from the first words you had ever pronounced to your favorite socks color. Girls do not like learning everything about a person from the profile as they don’t know what to ask about when communicating personally. Be sure though that the banal details with only information about your height, weight and eyes color could work only if you have an extremely handsome photo of yourself. And even if it is so, try to make your profile original and a little bit mysterious – that will make you interesting at once. Girls are curious you know.

Just do it

Finally you have a nice original profile with a nice photo in it. But what are you waiting for?

Russian girl is usually rather modest. She won’t start chatting with a man herself. There is some exclusion from that rule but usually such girls are not the best wife types.

So you’d better look through the girls’ profiles, find some girl you like and write some words to her. Here we have several very important questions. First of all it is the language. You don’t have to know Russian for dating with a Russian girl. If she is on this dating site, she probably knows English well enough to communicate with you. But that doesn’t matter she is ready to read some complicated passages with lots of difficult words. Try to start from simple words. But you should avoid banal beginnings such as “Hi!” or “Hello, pretty” without anything else. Just imagine: you get five or six “hi” without any continuation and one original and smart message. What would you choose?

It would be great if you can find some Russian commonly used words such as greetings, compliments ad so on for using in chat from time to time. Russian girls usually appreciate that very much because for a Russian girl it is a sign of respect from you.

If the language barrier had not stopped you and you feel that you like a girl and the girl likes you it would be nice to ask her out, wouldn’t it? Here we come to another problem. You are far from each other. If you often come to the city she lives in, everything is ok. But, if not you have to know that modest Russian girl probably won’t come to your city and stay at your place as a guest. Russian girl’s principles won’t allow her to do that. Not saying about the danger to be badly cheated, she might be afraid of. So if you want to see her in real live, be ready to plan some time and come to her city to communicate with her. Obviously, before you do this, it is necessary to talk to her by phone many times and to be sure that you are not going to be cheated in some kind.

Be happy

These simple recommendations will help you to start a successful relationship with Russian girl. To be honest, communicating with Russian girls is much easier then communicating with Western ones. Russian girls are usually more kindhearted and pleasant then their Western sisters. So, do not hesitate. Just go and find your real love.