The Love Scout

Francis Githinji asked:


A Russian girl is mainly known by her beauty. They always manage to stand out from the crowd. This is the reason why many men want to date Russian girls. If you are one of these men, it is vital to know exactly how you are going to date these beautiful women and where to find them in the first place. In the modern world, it has become very easy to meet girls from all over the world. When you go the online route, you will not be disappointed. There are so many online dating services that will match you to the perfect Russian girl. It is essential that you choose a service that will offer you what you want in the simplest and easiest way possible. Make use of reviews and they will inform you some of the services that have a track record that is undisputed. You want to through a service that has the experience of matching singles from Russia. I came across a good service that will do the trick for you.

The first thing is to read about how the service or agency is organized and the following is the description of Single Russian Brides which is an online agency for dating the girls. It is a real agency that is based in St Petersburg Russia. The Russian girls who wish to be matched to mates will personally bring themselves to the agency. Then, they undergo a process of being screened by experts. This is to verify their suitability when it comes to dating. This service will conduct a physical and psychological screening. Therefore, you can be sure that the person you will meet will be stable and well to start a relationship with you. You are assured of the following when it comes to this service. First, you will enjoy a personal search. This means that your chosen criteria of a single girl will be followed. Therefore, if you want a beautiful and sincere girl, you will definitely get what you want. The other thing is checking information about girls.

The honesty about the information given about the girls will be counter checked by the service. This way, you do not have to rely on what they say but, you can trust what the agency confirmed. You will also enjoy personal consultation. This is when you talk to professional matchmakers who will guide you in the right direction. The service will deliver all your letters and, when there is language barrier, translation will be provided. If you want to know more about the company, you simply have to read more on it on their site. The information will help you judge the kind of service you will use. The following are some of the things that you can read on about this dating agency for Russian girls. Their leadership and industry, purpose, mission, client ranges and the management team. You can count on them for a professional service that will make sure you meet the girls of your dreams. You will have lots of fun as you meet your Russian better half.

Francis Githinji asked:


Russian girls are something special and many men from all over the world want to date them. Their immense beauty and character are some of the attributes that make them very attractive to many. Therefore, if you are a man who has always had a thing for Russians girls, you better buckle up and listen on how to start your adventure. The best way to meet people who are living abroad for dating is online. For this reason, numerous dating sites for Russian girls will be found just to cater for you. You have to take your pick. There are several factors you need to consider before you pick a Russian dating site. First, consider whether it has what you want. You want to meet real girls and, you should study the site to discover or identify the kind of girls you want. Many Russian dating sites will have pictures of some of the girls you can expect to meet. It is vital that a site for dating has some pictures to display what you expect to find.

You should also consider whether the service has the right experience in the industry. You can do this by reading more about them. You can also read more on their success stories or testimonials. It feels great using a dating service that has been tried and tested. You can look for a site that is straight forward, simple and to the point. This is because your dating experience should not stress you out; it should be real simple. You then need to consider the money you will pay for the service. There are services that are absolutely free. But, if you want to become a premium member, you can pay and this way, you will be in a position to enjoy more features and facilities of the service. Russian dating agency is one service that you can visit and you will not be disappointed. Their site is filled with helpful information that will enable you find the girl of your dreams. The other thing you need to do is empower yourself with information on how to date Russian girls.

You need some pointers that will prepare you for the ultimate experience. The important tips of how to date these girls include the following. First, you need to put your honest cap on. Russian women want a man who can pour out his soul in an honest manner. You are coming from different backgrounds and you might be highly tempted to be dishonest. The other thing is to be persistent. The girls need to be conquered and you must never loose the fight. The other thing that you need to do is never to fall in love with her photo. The beauty of Russian women is very intense and, you need to focus on the attributes of the girl so that you can love her. There are so many other tips that you can follow and, you will be empowered in this regard. Have fun while meeting people and you will definitely find what you are looking for.

Stephanie Vermeulen asked:


Men have no idea how much women talk about sex.  They also don’t realise how swiftly girl-gaggles get down to the nitty-gritty, the detail of which would startle most men.  In between bouts of hilarity, women swap anecdotes about men’s size, duration, technique, giving the impression that nothing is too sacred to scrutinise.  But on closer examination, could this banter be a decoy to cover for the most untouchable topic of all; the vulnerability many females feel about sex? 

While animals get on with doing ‘it’, humans have made such a song and dance about something that is as natural as sleeping and the rules and taboos can turn the hottest woman into a frosty ice-block in bed. 

When I was growing up, good girls weren’t supposed to have sex at all.  Good married girls were expected to do their duty and the idea of female orgasm was little more than preposterous.  Then lurve-making was freed by the marvels of contraception and every self-respecting hippy thumbed their noses at convention by shagging with alacrity.  Now the daisy-chains of the ‘60’s have been replaced by the manacles of the vamp and the pressure is on for women to perform. 

Today the natural form of tender loving sex has become passé and marketing has seduced women into being on constant sex alert; to have ready shaven legs, a well manicured Brazilian, perky breasts and sanitised female parts that have the fragrance of artificial rose-petals instead of a musty old sack.  Not only does this inhibit the spontaneity of a lustful ‘quickie’ but some also believe that their well manicured body has to be covered in elaborate outfits worn with the sole intention of being taken off.

While dressing up is a matter of personal preference, if women feel pressurised to do so the big question is: who are they doing this for? Do females really turn themselves on when trying to squeeze into their old school gymslip?

Now I’m nearly six foot tall and have the characteristic spread of middle-age; so it’s just ludicrous to imagine what this would look like in a cute little French Maid’s outfit.  I also know that if my man wore his underpants on the outside of his tracksuit and flew at me from the top of the wardrobe, I would fall about laughing and, at our age, he may risk losing more than his erection.

One of the things the Vagina Monologues set out to achieve was to bring the diversity of female sexuality into normal conversation.  But for starters even using the word ‘vagina’ was problematic.  Some female callers to radio stations had the typical shock-and-horror reaction to this word being touted in public. Perhaps they would be more comfortable with any of the hundreds of vulgar euphemisms used to demean the only part that makes us definitively female. 

This inability to utter the word points to the baggage attached to female sexuality and it is this that leads many women to feel shy about bonking.  Parents seldom deal with sex as if it were an everyday topic to be discussed openly with children and their self-consciousness is interpreted as shame. 

My first sex-education was a rather awkward clinical tour of vaginal tracts, Fallopian tubes and sperm sacs delivered by a nun at the convent I attended.  Even at age 11 the credibility problem was patently obvious; what could a celibate nun possibly know about sex?

This clinical version certainly didn’t include ideas about sex being the most fun you can have with or without your clothes on and topics like oral sex and masturbation weren’t just hush-hush, they weren’t even mentioned.  The most common misconception about masturbation was that it made boys go blind; ensuring that the bespectacled class nerd was ridiculed mercilessly. 

Understanding one’s own body is the key to breaking down socially imposed sexual bashfulness, claims sex therapist Marlene Wasserman – aka Dr Eve on popular radio talk shows.  Author of Pillowbook, Dr Eve recommends that girls masturbate every day giving new meaning to the phrase: “I got it all this morning”.  Apparently there’s no getting around it, only by regularly paddling the pink canoe will you come to grips with the buttons that turn you on.

There are many how-to books on the market but says Dr Eve; all women’s bodies are different and when it comes to learning about orgasms, there is no one-size-fits-all.   She adds: “Books that recommend pushing a bit here and tweaking a little there harm women.”  Many may try these techniques but if they fail, the reader believes there’s something wrong with herself, not that there’s something wrong with the book.

Instead Dr Eve advises learning about one’s sexuality as a process rather than some handy techniques, and the starting point is to be as familiar with the contours of your vulva as we are with the lines on our face.

Just the idea of squatting naked on a mirror produces some extraordinary reactions in women.  From reluctance to revulsion, the lack of enthusiasm for becoming familiar with one’s own vagina calls attention to the deep-rooted conditioning underpinning sexual shyness or shame.  

From God’s lips to man’s ears, female sexuality was contrived as the source of evil and consequently girls need to overcome many illusory bad feelings about sex.  Guilt is the big baddie here and even young girls still condemn other sexily dressed teenagers with insults like ‘slut’ and ‘whore’.  Not so long ago these tags were used for women who slept around, but what shows up the absurdity is that no one ever knew how many partners it took.   Was it a total of two, ten or forty-three different lovers that turned one into a ‘ho’?

Fabled ideas about female sexuality mean that girls often fall-back upon the misguided notion that men know what to do.  This is a disastrous falsehood as most boys resort to the school playground or the movies for their sex-ed.  I’ve often wondered whether those ‘educated’ solely by cine-sex believe that the most common sexual position is the one with the woman cheerfully bouncing around on top.  The only reason for this becoming the movie standard is because such an arrangement provides the best camera shot of her voluminous breasts.

As men are equally in the dark when it comes to sex-ed, most report that they would prefer their women to guide them rather than having to rely upon assumptions; or make the mistake of basing their judgement on what a previous lover liked.

Another major inhibiting factor for women is the obsession with physical perfection.  Many agonize that their cellulite, wobbly bum or tell-tale love-handles will turn their partner off.  What few females realise is that he’s so preoccupied with getting his end away that he’s unlikely to even notice these self-proclaimed imperfections. 

What’s the point of using your imagination to put yourself down anyway?  Self-flagellation won’t alter his view; it will only switch your libido off.  Instead therapists like Dr Eve recommend using your imagination to think yourself into a state where you start feeling sexy and desirable. 

Along with learning about sex, we also need to unlearn the fables that led us down the garden path to inhibition and frustration. Sex is not a stage performance; it is the most natural act of all.  So instead of nattering to friends, who you may be unlikely to wish to bed, how about starting to have conversations with the partners in whose hands our sexual satisfaction lies?